Saturday, 9 August 2008

Remembering

A few pics of me and Mr TC. I can't WAIT until he returns from Chemoland, I miss him so!!


A Man and His House ....



Shadowkissing .....



Drumming in his African drumming band. (He's had to give that up this year, and really misses it. Calls it his meditation ...)



On a sunny winters day last year ...





Standing in line, waiting to go into Billy Kwongs. One of the BEST restaurants in Sydney. He took me for my birthday last year ....



Tiger took this pic. I love it, even though the top of my head is cut off ....






A pic from our wedding night. He never wanted to get married and didn't understand the fuss .... until we did it. He LOVES being married now ...



This pic was taken less than two weeks before Monkey was born. We had no idea yet how dreadfully ill Mr TC was; our world was about to go careening off its axis .....


Ok, yeah, so great. I am now BLUBBERING! Although, it was very good to look at all of these happy pix. I'm going to print some off and put them in a frame, and give it to Mr TC so he doesn't forget who he is ... who WE are.
xoxoxoxoxox

12 comments:

G said...

He is seriously hunky. The two of you make a beautiful couple :)

Don't fret over last nights post, sometimes that stuff just has to come out so you can move past and find pictures like this :)

(ps, thanks for stopping in, I have been lurking on your site since you were pregnant, I just didnt want my blog to scare you back then. xoxox)

G

Mony said...

Gawd.
It is seriously complicated stuff. I understand it when you said in your last post "Life goes on for you..." it's hard to be in the same dark space Mr TC is in...it's his alone. That must be the scariest thing about dealing with his situation. He knows it's his fear, and his depression & his reality. No-one elses. Even though you all live with the day to day consequences, you can't battle for him. Geez, TC. It must be such an emotional battlezone. But, I think you are dealing with it beautifully. Why gloss over how you feel? I'm glad you have this blog, to voice all the things you can't say out loud. You have the wonderful ability to say "It's all FUCKED and I hate everything"...when others would say zip.
You are no pretender, my love.
And that is what makes you so lovable.
March on. Another day begins and ends. And you will stand tall....even if you feel like you're laying flat to the pavement.
Love the photo's. He is a spunk. Your toyboy. With no hair.

Fertilized said...

have I ever told you how absolutelu gorgeous you both are?!?

as always, thank you for the comment - I looked up that comic .. SO Funny

Geohde said...

All I can say is that should I ever be in your neck of the antipodean woods I shall be dying to catch up in person,

xx

J

annacyclopedia said...

You got me weepy, Topcat, with this beautiful and simple way of showing who you are. So much spirit and heart in the photos. It shines through from both of you.

And after the weepy passed, I was just struck by how ridiculously good looking you both are. Ridiculous! And I'm swooning over your wedding dress!

J said...

Love your pics! Both so photogenic, I usually have to stick my neck out like a giraffe so the "chins" dont make an appearance.

Dont feel bad about prev. blog post, this is why we have them, to vent instead of accidentally forgetting where we live and start muttering incomprehensively to ourselves. Although that might be a fun change of pace, and would definitely get the neighbors talking.

Hang in there girl, your doing great!

ohn said...

The whole point of coming here is to vent to us and not the people you love and are fragile right now. You did just what you are supposed to do.

Love the photos! Mr. TC looks like what we call over here as a "man's man" (not meaning he likes men, meaning that he is "one of the guys"). The big C has to be very very difficult for him because he looks like a "fixer" and he can't fix this on his own. Just my observation.

And WOW, you got skinny awful fast from that preggo belly. WHEW!

anna said...

I've written some posts that I've later regretted as well so fear not! It's only natural that you're on a roller-coaster of emotions right now. You two are so beautiful and clearly so happy together in your pictures... this current badness, too, shall pass.

Gemini Girl said...

sending you love and kisses. you will both get through this. you both have been through so much already. you have one another and there is nothing better.

mwaa.

love the new profile!

Vee said...

You guys are absolutely gorgeous !

MR TC will no doubt be back, he just needs to get through this shit the best way he can. Your last post is perfectly acceptable, it's ok to be angry.

Anonymous said...

These are beautiful pictures, thankyou for sharing them.

tobacco brunette said...

Just catching up after vacation.

I've told you before how beautiful I think you are. And...uhhh...Mr. TC is hot. Like sizzling. I'm particularly fond of the pic with him in the camo t-shirt and jeans. Yum. Perhaps you have more pix of him with his band to share...you know, cuz I really like drumming.